Let me tell you one thing, sometimes when the defeat becomes inevitable and you are defeated so much badly that you can't stand up, believe me its the most difficult time of your life. Sometimes no matter how much hard you try yourself, no matter how much hard you try to change the course of history, but sometimes your opponent would snatch away the victory and you would end up with nothing except crying. In any such situation, many a times there is a choice to try again but most of the time, some are not even given the privilege to learn from their mistakes and hence have to quit. In various motivational videos, poems, writings etc. you might confront numerous of messages giving you goosebumps and acting as wonderful boosters but you know what things are not as easy as them. In my previous blogs too, I wrote so many fancy lines that just get up try and try but most of the times, you don't even get the chance to try. No matter how much you try, you fail and most unfortunately, you don't even get the chance or opportunity to try again.
In such situations, I would just say, things are out of your reach. Sometimes no matter what you do, you are bound to fail as none in the world can get each and everything. In such times, no one can help you, you will get upset, curse life and yourself but such disastrous situations are the situations that no person other than you can face them. None of us can get everything we want, and at last no matter how much resolute you are, you have to tell it to yourself because, life is not a very fair game in which you keep winning every times. Some defeats come and shatter you up, reiterating the fact in your mind that you are still a human beings.
When you face such things, I would say just, tell yourself this too shall pass. Though I know whenever the magnitude of loss is so much high, its nearly impossible to just say this statement but you have no option buddy. You have to. Many people can ask you to try again, but what if you don't even get the opportunity to try again and such things are the worst when you don't have the resources to try again and at last in such situations, you have to tell yourself, no matter how much bad your time is, one day it will pass and something good which is yet to approach your life would take the place of dismay and vexing.........
In such situations, I would just say, things are out of your reach. Sometimes no matter what you do, you are bound to fail as none in the world can get each and everything. In such times, no one can help you, you will get upset, curse life and yourself but such disastrous situations are the situations that no person other than you can face them. None of us can get everything we want, and at last no matter how much resolute you are, you have to tell it to yourself because, life is not a very fair game in which you keep winning every times. Some defeats come and shatter you up, reiterating the fact in your mind that you are still a human beings.
When you face such things, I would say just, tell yourself this too shall pass. Though I know whenever the magnitude of loss is so much high, its nearly impossible to just say this statement but you have no option buddy. You have to. Many people can ask you to try again, but what if you don't even get the opportunity to try again and such things are the worst when you don't have the resources to try again and at last in such situations, you have to tell yourself, no matter how much bad your time is, one day it will pass and something good which is yet to approach your life would take the place of dismay and vexing.........
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