OFF DAYS IN LIFE.

Many a times we start despising ourselves. Due to various circumstances and failing so many times at different things which we have always wanted can make even the most fastidious and meticulous person lose up faith. Most of the time when we are completely failing each and every day, a different kind of feeling springs up which is actually inexplicable. Everything is happening in front of us but still we are able to change things; it’s just like you most beloved person dying in your hands and no one out there to help. We reprobate ourselves for being so much helpless but that doesn’t ameliorate the situation even to the slightest possible degree. Such days are pretty hard to deal with. Many people might deride you up, express disparage and contempt of you with as much wanton as possible.

These days will certainly come in your life because life is pretty much uneven. You will fail even at the things you are a master at and things would never be good. You would blame God or any other power you believe in, and you would start abiding things. These days are just hard to pass. Every passing second is just hollowing us out from within, enervating us completely and engendering a sense of complete failure on every facet of life.

Whenever you are engulfed in such a storm, believe me nobody can actually help you except yourself. If you go out and tell your problems to others, either they won’t understand your problem or they would just express some kind of false sympathy with you and in either case nothing works for you by default. So, first of all its better to not go out and blurt out about your problems. The first and foremost thing about salvaging yourself from your problems is to stop expecting other people to have an uncommon interest in you to cure you up. See, in life, nobody has time for you; nobody would come up to give you a helping hand to come out of problems. Nobody indeed bothers about you. So just relax and don’t be impatient over the fact that nobody else is taking a stand for you. Its better you make yourself inured to the fact that the world is just like the way it is.

The second thing is to believe in yourself. Rather than becoming depressed and losing your heart, try to be patient. The darkest hour of the night is the one which is preceded by the dawn. So, this too shall pass. I know that such days are extremely out of track and you are afflicted with lots of hardships but you need to continue following your dream and this too shall pass. Just think about any horrendous incident that happened to you in your past. Think how much you were trembling before that incident but still you came victorious out of it and life is still having so many things. Just like that incident, you would one day pass over this one too and hence life would carry on even after these incidents in life. So just stop worrying about future and don’t take the burden of past; you live neither in the past nor in the future; you are a product of the present and hence its true that one day this too shall pass.Many a times we start despising ourselves. Due to various circumstances and failing so many times at different things which we have always wanted can make even the most fastidious and meticulous person lose up faith. Most of the time when we are completely failing each and every day, a different kind of feeling springs up which is actually inexplicable. Everything is happening in front of us but still we are able to change things; it’s just like you most beloved person dying in your hands and no one out there to help. We reprobate ourselves for being so much helpless but that doesn’t ameliorate the situation even to the slightest possible degree. Such days are pretty hard to deal with. Many people might deride you up, express disparage and contempt of you with as much wanton as possible.

These days will certainly come in your life because life is pretty much uneven. You will fail even at the things you are a master at and things would never be good. You would blame God or any other power you believe in, and you would start abiding things. These days are just hard to pass. Every passing second is just hollowing us out from within, enervating us completely and engendering a sense of complete failure on every facet of life.

Whenever you are engulfed in such a storm, believe me nobody can actually help you except yourself. If you go out and tell your problems to others, either they won’t understand your problem or they would just express some kind of false sympathy with you and in either case nothing works for you by default. So, first of all its better to not go out and blurt out about your problems. The first and foremost thing about salvaging yourself from your problems is to stop expecting other people to have an uncommon interest in you to cure you up. See, in life, nobody has time for you; nobody would come up to give you a helping hand to come out of problems. Nobody indeed bothers about you. So just relax and don’t be impatient over the fact that nobody else is taking a stand for you. Its better you make yourself inured to the fact that the world is just like the way it is.

The second thing is to believe in yourself. Rather than becoming depressed and losing your heart, try to be patient. The darkest hour of the night is the one which is preceded by the dawn. So, this too shall pass. I know that such days are extremely out of track and you are afflicted with lots of hardships but you need to continue following your dream and this too shall pass. Just think about any horrendous incident that happened to you in your past. Think how much you were trembling before that incident but still you came victorious out of it and life is still having so many things. Just like that incident, you would one day pass over this one too and hence life would carry on even after these incidents in life. So just stop worrying about future and don’t take the burden of past; you live neither in the past nor in the future; you are a product of the present and hence its true that one day this too shall pass.

JAI HIND, JAI BHARAT

JAI MA BHARTI