TO BE OR NOT TO BE.

Most of us are in the habit of taking too much tension about the things going on around us. Many a times, the truth is pellucid in front of us all that we just can’t do anything in order to change what’s going to happen but we still continue to nag too much about the situation that we actually let go of things which we can change. There are a lot of grave situations when we are just in flurry to gather up as much tension as we can notwithstanding being completely aware of the fact that nothing can be done in order to make the things recuperate. Whenever you face anything like this, despite of your human proclivity to be a hypocrite of being under stress, just stop for a moment. Take a look around yourself and ask yourself why are you taking so much stress on things you can never change. 

In life there are two types of stresses that one must never take. One of repentance, and the other of complete inability to effect any change in order to ameliorate the situation.

The first one being like, initially choosing the wrong path deliberately and then regretting for the same. Most of the people around are in the habit of crying throughout the day on the penultimate day of the exam. They wasted the whole year doing almost nothing and now they are repenting. Despite of choosing the path that you wanted, you are not happy and indeed are busy shedding tears for things which are almost irreversible now. Now at that moment, despite of feeling bad, guilty and trying to atone for your mistakes by crying; wait for a moment, tell yourself the whole situation and find a better way to evade any such situation in the future. Tell yourself that this too shall pass because no event in life can actually define your whole life. Many ups and downs may come but life goes on. If you think you will fumble in the upcoming test and this would be the end of life, just ask yourself one thing; would you be crying for the same test even after a decade or twenty years. Nobody is going to remember anything about you, people have a very short memory. The day you do something great, the world would automatically forget all the mistakes that you did. The day you become a millionaire, your story of failing the test would be the most popular inspirational story round the world and rather than being a shame for you, it will add glory to your success. But to make all such things happen, you have to actually become a millionaire (successful person) and to do that rather than crying over the tests, relationship etc. that you fail in life, move ahead and learn from them. Crying over them will never take you anywhere, but learning from them can save you from falling down in the same pit again and hence no use of crying, just move ahead, life is too great to cry over pity faults.

The next type of pain is something that’s more difficult to endure than the first one. In some situation, you just can’t do anything. You know that so many things are happening in front of you but you just can’t do anything either because of your circumstances, current situation or whatever the reason may be. Whenever you are in such a situation, stop being tensed. Because once you become acclimatized to taking relentless tension over such topics, life would become too much complicated and you would lose out on things which you are capable of changing. I know it’s hard telling yourself to just curb pondering over a particular topic, but just console yourself, tell yourself that you can’t do anything because some things are going to happen the way they are destined to. For example, there are some people we love and there are some other which we don’t. We have no specific reason of giving preference to a few people over others; that’s destiny. There are even some people whom you loathe for no reason and that’s the fault in your stars.  So abandon some things for destiny. Train your mind to stop thinking about it and rather focus your power on things you can change. The rest lies on you. Whether you want to focus your attention on positive things or you want to just blubber and cry over things you can’t change or whether you want to invest the precious jewel of time in things which you can; it all rests on your shoulders.

STAY HUNGRY, STAY FOOLISH.

JAI HIND, JAI BHARAT

JAI MA BHARTI

DISSATISFACTION IN LIFE.

Sometimes in life, we all become unsatisfied. It’s hard living the same life for so much time with almost no fame, wealth or any other pleasure. There are some low moments when we commence hating our own life, remaining continuously unsatisfied with the resources that we have. We are so much sulked at our disappointments that the world seems almost useless and futile. Sometimes we get disturbed for our profession, we become angry over the fact that we can’t dance or sing like one of our friends who is extremely good at it and in during these things we indeed snub off our own qualities. We become unsatisfied about our health and various other things can sneak into this list.

Such things continue in life for a long time. These moments are going to haunt us great many times and whenever we are stuck in between these things life seems completely in vain. A dilemma shrouds us and we are completely caged up in its veil. But let me tell you one thing, why don’t you realize the fact that your friend who can sing and dance extremely well can’t do the things you are extremely good at? Why don’t you realize that fact that people having wealth and prosperity might be so much devoid of inner peace that money won’t be fulfilling their need to be happy and cheerful?

See, life is pretty unfair and nobody has been there who has ever got everything. You can’t be good at all the things in this one simple life.

One of my favorite aphorisms is from Salvador Dali,

“Have no fear of perfection - you'll never reach it.”

 I am sorry to say this, but this is how life works. How can you expect to be exceptional at hundreds of activities in such a small life? There are people out there who have dedicated their whole life in becoming good singers, dancers, writers etc., how can you even think of doing so many things all of a sudden in such brevity of life? Hence, don’t feel bad that you are not a prodigy at everything and choose one thing at which you are really good at and then become famous for it. It’s better to be a master of one trade than being a jack of all. What if you become “good” at dancing, singing, writing, speaking; but you don’t become “great” at anything? If you are only good, you are not cut out to be one of a kind, because in the population of seven billion, there are billion who are just good and that’s why you don’t even know their name.

Talking about satisfaction, let me tell you one thing; you are never going to be satisfied. If you are really into something, trying to do something unprecedented and far above banality, let me tell you, you won’t be satisfied until and unless you reach your goal. Indeed, you are still alive in the game just because you have a fire of dissatisfaction burning inside you. It’s better not be satisfied than to be indifferent. Hence stay hungry till you achieve what you want to achieve. But one crucial thing is that you must learn to wait. You can’t expect to become the biggest star with just one rendition. You have to wait for years to become something truly great. Give you best, work hard every day and be unsatisfied but learn to wait. This wait is going to be like an ordeal but go through this because Rome was not built in a day.

JAI HIND, JAI BHARAT

JAI MA BHARTI

THE WINNING CROWN

The things that we are destined to meet would surely once day knock our door,
Just learn how to wait,
Everything in this world is worth loving,
Just learn how to let go of hate,
Your destiny is about to give you a chance,
Just learn how not to blame your fate,
Your world is right in front of your eyes,
Just open your heart's gate,
The whole universe is conspiring to make you meet with your life,
Just learn how to cut the problems that are rife,
There is surely something that has your name,
Just learn the rules and how to play that game.

Just don't quit, cause you, are about to win,
Work hard because you are not made to deign,
Get back up again cause no pain is greater than the desperation of ultimate defeat,
Just take yourself up and gather relentlessness' heat,
Each one of us has to perish,
The question is who among us, after demise, is going to be cherished,
Life is too short to waste doing nothing,
Let the world throng and pound that  you, are a something.

Just let the things go away which are taking you down,
Let your enemies wear hatred's frown,
Cause winning is your habit,
Yours is the crown.

JAI HIND, JAI BHARAT

JAI MA BHARTI

THE WINNING CROWN

The things that we are destined to meet would surely once day knock our door,
Just learn how to wait,
Everything in this world is worth loving,
Just learn how to let go of hate,
Your destiny is about to give you a chance,
Just learn how not to blame your fate,
Your world is right in front of your eyes,
Just open your heart's gate,
The whole universe is conspiring to make you meet with your life,
Just learn how to cut the problems that are rife,
There is surely something that has your name,
Just learn the rules and how to play that game.

Just don't quit, cause you, are about to win,
Work hard because you are not made to deign,
Get back up again cause no pain is greater than the desperation of ultimate defeat,
Just take yourself up and gather relentlessness' heat,
Each one of us has to perish,
The question is who among us, after demise, is going to be cherished,
Life is too short to waste doing nothing,
Let the world throng and pound that  you, are a something.

Just let the things go away which are taking you down,
Let your enemies wear hatred's frown,
Cause winning is your habit,
Yours is the crown.

JAI HIND, JAI BHARAT

JAI MA BHARTI

THE WINNING CROWN

The things that we are destined to meet would surely once day knock our door,
Just learn how to wait,
Everything in this world is worth loving,
Just learn how to let go of hate,
Your destiny is about to give you a chance,
Just learn how not to blame your fate,
Your world is right in front of your eyes,
Just open your heart's gate,
The whole universe is conspiring to make you meet with your life,
Just learn how to cut the problems that are rife,
There is surely something that has your name,
Just learn the rules and how to play that game.

Just don't quit, cause you, are about to win,
Work hard because you are not made to deign,
Get back up again cause no pain is greater than the desperation of ultimate defeat,
Just take yourself up and gather relentlessness' heat,
Each one of us has to perish,
The question is who among us, after demise, is going to be cherished,
Life is too short to waste doing nothing,
Let the world throng and pound that  you, are a something.

Just let the things go away which are taking you down,
Let your enemies wear hatred's frown,
Cause winning is your habit,
Yours is the crown.

JAI HIND, JAI BHARAT

JAI MA BHARTI

THE WINNING CROWN

The things that we are destined to meet would surely once day knock our door,
Just learn how to wait,
Everything in this world is worth loving,
Just learn how to let go of hate,
Your destiny is about to give you a chance,
Just learn how not to blame your fate,
Your world is right in front of your eyes,
Just open your heart's gate,
The whole universe is conspiring to make you meet with your life,
Just learn how to cut the problems that are rife,
There is surely something that has your name,
Just learn the rules and how to play that game.

Just don't quit, cause you, are about to win,
Work hard because you are not made to deign,
Get back up again cause no pain is greater than the desperation of ultimate defeat,
Just take yourself up and gather relentlessness' heat,
Each one of us has to perish,
The question is who among us, after demise, is going to be cherished,
Life is too short to waste doing nothing,
Let the world throng and pound that  you, are a something.

Just let the things go away which are taking you down,
Let your enemies wear hatred's frown,
Cause winning is your habit,
Yours is the crown.

JAI HIND, JAI BHARAT

JAI MA BHARTI

WHERE THERE IS A WILL, THERE IS A WAY

WHERE THERE IS A WILL, THERE IS A WAY

It has been veraciously said that “Where there is a will, there is a way.” Whenever we have strong resolute and determination to get something done, we always get successful at that thing. No matter how times, or in how many ways, hindrances approach us, but we surpass them all to carve out our own way to greatness and all happen only and only when we have a relentless passion and a burning fire in ourselves.

Paulo Coelho, author of the bestseller “The Alchemist” remarked in his book that

“When you really want something by heart, the whole world will conspire you to achieve it.”

Whenever our desire to achieve a particular thing outshines all our problems, whenever our will beats all the odds, whenever history is defeated by our efforts, whenever our passion becomes unprecedented and whenever we start loving a particular thing more than anything else, miracles start happening.

Life is indeed is a maze. If you continue sitting where you have been from your birth, it would never disturb you but if you set your sail out to do something that has never been done, to do something that is not expected from your standards, life will hit you hard. Life is not all about bright sunshine and well being, it’s actually a nasty place where everything you try to stand up to do something you will be beaten to the ground, whenever you try to achieve something great, various difficulties might creep in, some circumstances would try their best to stop you from achieving what you have already wanted to do. Whenever you would ever try to embark on a remarkable journey, various storms would knock you hard. Every great person ever born has been through so many failures, where no way could help them out, the gloominess of not being able to succeed, engulfed them and this was their biggest test. But what separates them from the losers is that they never gave up. No matter how many times, the key to the lock didn’t work, they never abandon hope, they had a strong will that one day would be theirs, the day when their strong will would demarcate out new ways and that day is just theirs and finally at last they got their Eureka moment.

Success is a ice berg illusion. The fame, prosperity and wealth are just the part above the sea but the main part that consists of hard work, perseverance, determination, firm resolute, failure, disappointment, never giving-up attitude is what lies beneath the sea and beneath the normal view. When we try to get something, we are sure to get stuck at various points, because life is hard. If everything would have been so much tractable, each one of us would have done it and success would have itself lost its charm and hence great thing in life demand great perseverance. So, whenever you are trying to achieve a particular dream or goal, you are bound to fail and sometimes the magnitude of failure is so large that everything else would seem dwarf in front of it. You would feel as if you have been cursed or some misfortune has cast its spell on you. In such moments, most of us quit because most of us don’t have a great will or desire of strive and achieve our thing. At these moments, when all the ways appear blocked, comes handy our will. Our will can generate almost anything in this world. When our will to persevere at our work, despite of falling so many times, then things start changing and we ultimately win the combat.

Let me tell you the story of a guy with invincible will to beat all the critics and win. From the very commencement of his life, this man faced so many disasters. When his father sent him to a music school, his teachers criticized him and told him that they way he holds violin is awkward and he is hopeless in music. When he set out to write music, his music was criticized as unconventional and “stupid”.  When he reached the pinnacle of his career as a songwriter and composer, he became deaf, but still the will that this guy had never let him yield down. Despite of being condemned by everybody else, he believed in himself and his unvanquishable spirit. Notwithstanding becoming deaf at the summit of his success, he penned down five greatest symphonies, the world has ever listened to. This person was none other than the greatest of the greats Sir Ludwig Wan Beethoven.  In such situation, almost everybody would have accepted defeat and stopped writing. Anybody could have given excuses to shirk out, but it was only Beethoven who carried on because he knew that one day, his will to succeed would forsake every criticism thrown at him behind and he will achieve what he has always wanted to.

One more guy showed his great will to leave past everyone behind and conduct remarkable deed. He was enrolled in a medical school but because he was least interested and worked poorly, he was terminated. His father rebuked him very much and always said that he would never amount too much because he was always busy hunting rabbits and rats and also called him a disgrace to the whole family. The guy felt very bad and dejected but his will never let him surrender to anybody else. He continue his work of shooting rabbits and rats and today we call him the father of modern Biology, Sir Charles Darwin.

World is full of people whose will never let them surrender and one day their will carved out all the ways for them. Their strong will never let them yield to the world and one day they catapulted to fame.

Remember when your belief in something breaks every precedent, things start happening. It was only Meerabai’s great belief that led her to Lord Krishna. So if you have a strong and great will to succeed, no matter how many times your ways are blocked, you would find a new way; no matter how many times you are dashed to ground, if you have a will to stand up nobody in the world can keep you down. If your determination is relentless, the world will bow to you one day and your greatness will win. A Greek proverb says that, “if you beat the enemy within, there would be no enemy out.”  Nobody can challenge you in the world, if your will is extremely strong and remember this determination is the only thing that you need to surpass all the storms. No matter how many times failure strike, learn from it, collect all your strength and go ahead with all your resolute and let me tell you, you are bound to win. Whenever you feel depressed, think why you started, and then when you get the reason, fight your way back to light. In your journey, you would face extreme difficulties, but remember you resolute to succeed would never let you down and only this determination will help you achieve the invincible.

JAI HIND, JAI BHARAT

JAI MA BHARTI